The idea of an ordi­nary life being extra­or­di­nary first began to gel in me as I bemoaned my lack of a plat­form. In the writ­ing world. pub­lish­ers are very keen on writ­ers who have a built-​​in plat­form, or mar­ket, like a celebrity min­is­ter, or a high-​​profile per­son­al­ity, or a megachurch pas­tor. Good writ­ing is impor­tant, and a bril­liant con­cept will get a publisher’s atten­tion, but the ques­tion of “What’s your plat­form?” invari­ably gets brought up as well.

As this harsh real­ity became clear to me I began to exam­ine my life. What’s my plat­form? Acad­e­mia? Nope. The only degrees I have are the ones I earned from junior high and high school. Min­istry accom­plish­ments? Well, noth­ing spec­tac­u­lar. Just run-​​of-​​the-​​mill church vol­un­teerism and a few years with YWAM. Um, what about my blog? Ok, it’s a start. But it’s not really a bona fide plat­form. It’s more like a soap­box in the woods, a place where I sound off to vagabond trav­el­ers who have got­ten off the main road.

And then, one day, it dawned on me. I fig­ured out what my writ­ing plat­form was.

My plat­form is that I have no platform!

This epipheny flooded me with a renewed sense of vision and call. My ordi­nary, every­day life is the plat­form I am writ­ing from. It is the author­ity I con­fi­dantly pos­sess and can pass on to my read­ers, whether on the blog or in print pub­li­ca­tions. My per­spec­tive, unteth­ered from aca­d­e­mic learn­ing, is my unique voice offer­ing another point of view. Because I have no plat­form power, this dri­ves home the point that I am an ordi­nary woman dis­cov­er­ing how truly extra­or­di­nary that is. I am my message.

My teenaged daugh­ter and I have had a few con­ver­sa­tions about this. I was thrilled to dis­cover this quote on one of her online social net­work­ing pro­files: An ordi­nary life is an extra­or­di­nary life.

I asked her, “Hey, where did you get that? Is it yours? Did you write that on your own?” I was pleased to learn that she had cre­ated this insight on her own, fruit from our talks about how God must love ordi­nary peo­ple since he made so many of us.

It’s a sim­ple truth, but like most sim­ple truths, it is an over­looked, for­got­ten truth. In the gar­den of life, where show stop­ping roses get the blue rib­bon, the com­mon wild rose grows in secret beauty, unno­ticed, on the side of a lost high­way. It’s ordi­nary exis­tence is extra­or­di­nary, whether any­one pays atten­tion to it or not.

I think I have found a hid­den vein in my writ­ing bones. Crevices, caves and tun­nels that I need to explore to uncover buried trea­sure, the trea­sure of an ordi­nary life lived. The trea­sure of an ordi­nary life like mine.

I wel­come your input. Your ideas. Any books that you have read that encour­aged you that it’s ok if you don’t leave a mark on the world or do some­thing big with your life. I want to add my voice to that plat­form, to the whis­pered song that says yes, you do matter.

A big fac­tor in my jour­ney of dis­cov­er­ing my ordi­nary plat­form has been Bill Dahl. Bill wrote a work called The Por­poise Div­ing Life. It’s not a slam on the mega best seller, The Pur­pose Dri­ven Life, but rather, it’s a book that asks the ques­tion, What about day 41? (this is in ref­er­ence to PDL’s 40-​​day plan to get the reader locked into their pur­pose). Bill gen­er­ously gave me an audio copy of his book, which I often lis­tened to while dri­ving. One evening, as I loaded up my vac­uum and clean­ing bucket, headed out for a clean­ing gig for my small home/​office clean­ing ser­vice, I was feel­ing low. Does my life mat­ter? What if I don’t have a pur­pose or can’t find it, or worse, what if I find it and then can’t live up to it?

As I lis­tened to PDL these words filled my car as I headed towards the Lloyd Cen­ter dis­trict of my jobsite:

Maybe you don’t feel that your pur­pose in life has been pre­de­ter­mined like a bul­let fired from a gun headed for the target…there’s not much you can do about the tra­jec­tory of the pro­jec­tile after your Cre­ator has pulled the trig­ger at birth. Per­haps your life expe­ri­ence has been more like a ric­o­chet, bounc­ing off one expe­ri­ence into the next. You’re not an exception.

Maybe you don’t feel dri­ven all the time by some sort of burn­ing pas­sion, the need to suc­ceed or a dis­tinct sense of unwa­ver­ing pur­pose. If this is the case, relax. You have loads of company.

These sim­ple words rever­ber­ated through my inse­cure heart and caught my atten­tion. They floated in my head for a while before land­ing, like seeds, on the soft earth of my inner world.

When I got to my job site I bumped into Larry. Larry is a pro­fes­sional cleaner who runs his own ser­vice. We’ve talked a few times. A jovial man, Larry shared his tes­ti­mony with me one of the first times I had met him. He was a new Chris­t­ian. He worked nights and week­ends so attend­ing church was not work­ing out for him. But he man­aged to find a mid-​​week men’s bible study that suited him and his sched­ule. When­ever I talked with Larry I felt like we were hav­ing church! We’d talk about the good things that we were learn­ing about God’s love and grace; we’d tell each other what we were cur­rently read­ing in the bible, or what Chris­t­ian truth was mak­ing an impact on our think­ing and living.

Larry spoke with a sim­ple dialect. A bright man, he spoke with the vocab­u­lary of the every­day man. This is my heart lan­guage and I enjoyed talk­ing with him very much.

The night I got to the job site, feel­ing low, lis­ten­ing to PDL about not hav­ing an unwa­ver­ing sense of pur­pose, it all came to a head. And Larry was right in mid­dle of it. We began to talk and I told him, ‘I don’t have a pur­pose in life.” Larry became ani­mated. He began preach­ing pas­sion­ately to me. “Don’t say that! Yes you do have a pur­pose! God cre­ated you and you’re here to have rela­tion­ship with him!” Larry refused to let me leave the park­ing lot until I could tell him that yes, ok, I do have a pur­pose in life, and though that pur­pose may not seem pro­found, the fact that God cre­ated me to know him and his Fatherly love is pur­pose enough.

For the rest of the evening I reflected on that. As I dusted and vac­u­umed and mopped what seemed like miles of floors, I soaked up the words of Bill Dahl’s PDL, and Larry the Park­ing Lot Preacher.The lie that my ordi­nary life does not mat­ter began to fade. It was being weeded out of the soil of my heart as those seeds of hope and truth took root. I can cel­e­brate my ordi­nary exis­tence sim­ply because I exist in a world cre­ated by a lov­ing Creator.

An ordi­nary life is an extra­or­di­nary life. Even the life of a writer who smells like bleach.

**thanks to all who have read all of the Ordi­nary blog posts. Your response and feed­back has helped me tremen­dously in con­cep­tu­al­iz­ing a larger work on this topic. You are my extra­or­di­nary ordi­nary blog read­ers!!!!!!!!!!!

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Comments

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  1. hey tracy
    thanks for you vote of con­fi­dence. i’m gonna run with this one!

    hey amy, i appre­ci­ate your kind words of encour­age­ment. I’m grate­ful that this is res­onat­ing with you. Thanks for hang­ing out with me at my blog!

    Hey Co Heir, I love it! Ric­o­chet­ing bul­lets, yes, it cer­tainly seems like that doesn’t it! (like we’ll never hit our tar­get, at least, not on purpose…LOLO ) Thanks for your kind words.….

    Hey Anon, yes, the irony of it all…to end up with a plat­form for not hav­ing a plat­form. It sounds like a Zen rid­dle! But here’s the thing: to build a plat­form out of one’s ordi­nary iden­tity rather than super­star accom­plish­ments or rep­u­ta­tion, that is what I’m inter­ested in. And I’m ok with my plat­form being very crowded. God, I hope it will be! And yes, anon, some folks sud­denly rise out of obscu­rity, like Young with The Shack, and have instant plat­form power. But I’ve talked with two edi­tors of two major Chris­t­ian pub­lish­ing houses in the States and the plat­form, though not entirely a pre­req­ui­site, is still an impor­tant con­sid­er­a­tion for a pub­lisher, any pub­lisher, to put money into a non-​​fiction work by an unknown every­day writer. Fic­tion works, on the other hand, are based entirely on merit, at least in the begin­ning. Then a read­er­ship is devel­oped and off you go. In any case, this is a con­cept that I am min­ing with my pen. We’ll see where it ends up, if even just my blog, I’m ok with that.

    Hey Bill, thank you!!!!!!!! This is all your fault, ya know! (let me know when you get those dates for BG and you com­ing to Portland)

    Hey Jane, wow. I love that quote. I am going to write it down and post it in my office. Thanks for shar­ing that. That says it all.

    Hey Tara, thanks for your gen­er­ous words. I am encour­aged! I love how you said, “I am his plat­form.” Yes! I love it! (your last com­ment made me laugh out­loud…! ok, gotta get offline. seri­ously. i have a clean­ing gig this morn­ing and need to shoot out the door. talk to you guys later…)

  2. Pam, for so long I won­dered what MY pur­pose was. What was to become of ME. And it is only within the last 2 years that I have begun to real­ize that I AM who I AM. Who He cre­ated. I love, I fall, I cry, I serve, I nuture. I am His mas­ter­piece, a work in progress. For far too long I coundn’t define me…why did I feel that I had to? We want pur­pose. And Dear One.…you are fufill­ing that with each stroke of the pen or punch of the key­board. With every kiss to your child’s for­head, phone call to encour­age a friend, or the gleam of respect and love in your eyes for your hus­band. If I have learned any­thing from this ‘blog­dom’ it is that I am HIS plat­form and just BEING is what is impor­tant. Thanks for being so extra-​​ordinary. You inspire me. Even if you do smell like bleach!

  3. From one richo­chet­ing (sp?) bul­let to another, you did a fan­tas­tic job show­ing the extra­or­di­nary­ness(?) of an ordi­nary life. Thanks.

  4. Pam, when you first said you would write for 10 days on this topic I was so excited to watch you plumb the depths of this train of thought.

    Not only have you done a fab­u­lous job, but I feel like you could keep on going if you wanted to. I’m amazed at how much you’ve mined from this vein and it feels like you could keep on going for a long, long time!

    I look for­ward to read­ing the book ;-).